3 signs you are becoming an irresponsible Nigerian parent

Parenting is a serious business which requires a lot of commitment and sacrifice.

These days, so many people give birth without any idea what it takes to be responsible parents for their kids.

Here are three signs that you’re becoming an irresponsible parent.

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1. You are giving birth to more kids you can’t take care of

When you begin to give birth to more kids that you clearly know you cannot take care of, you are fast becoming an irresponsible parent. When your children begin to take on huge responsibilities at their early ages, it is a sign that you are failing him or her. They did not beg to come on this world by themselves, so you owe them care and protection until they can stand on their feet. And even after they can stand on their feet.

2. After divorce, you don’t look back on your child(ren)

Divorce may mean the end of marriage, but it shouldn’t stop you from being there for your kids. After divorce, your kids need you more than ever before. Children from divorcee parents are often deprived of love, care, and affection required from both parents.

3. You’re making your child(ren) your retirement plan

You have yet to create a will for your kids in case of your death. Life is unpredictable. None of us can foresee when our time will come. Creating a will isn’t an act of dwelling on morbidity; it’s a responsible gesture toward your kids. Instead of making your children your retirement plan, create a will to ensure your children have something to fall back on in the event of your passing.