Nollywood actor, Deyemi Okanlawon, has said couples need to be having sex every day, morning, noon, and night.
The actor on Friday at the Toke Makinwa podcast “knowing your partner’s needs” said couples engaging in sex four times a week is not enough or good for their relationships.
Deyemi added that there shouldnāt be a calendar or timeline for sex, saying marriage was created for the purpose.
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The actor stated that sex should happen three times a day just as we eat three square meals a day.
When asked if the private part will not have rest, the actor said: “You don’t stop breathing because you want the nose to rest.”
Actor Deyemi and his wife last month celebrated their 10 years of being married to each other.
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The video caption reads, āHere I thought sex 4 times a week is a lot, I was humbled.
āMarried people, na so una dey do for here??? 4 times a week is too small???ā Okalawon said.
Actor Deyemi in a comment section also said, āRest bawo? Your house was made for living, does it need to rest? Your car was made for driving, does it need to rest? Ogbeni bring out that thing that was designed for only one reason!
Reacting to actor Deyemi comment on the video, some fans claimed that in their marriage, they have sex more than four times in a day while some said once in a month.
@ihemenancy, said she had sex four times with her man in a day, saying if it is sweet no one will go count it.
Similarly, @emmydaniels_coach, stated that there is no timetable when it comes to sex in marriage.
“Yeah I know there are days when responsibilities are on a high side but one thing is, don’t you ever forget your partner has sexual needs. Sexual needs for Men and women are different.
“Sometimes the man or the woman might want to be understanding because of the work stress and go for days into weeks without sex but truth is, as a man we easily get carried away by work and most times we expect the woman to initial the sex so whether you accept it or not, men crave sex everyday, it’s FOOD to man.
“Yes the body is not a machine and there are days you don’t feel like penetrating but there are other exciting things to do sexually to relieve the tension of stress. If you are both not intentional about creating time in the midst of the stress to relieve each other with sex then you both will lose out on each other sexually. I mean the sexual attraction will grow weak.
“Sex everyday is not until you penetrate, it’s all about romance, plenty of foreplay and doing a lot of exciting things to bring each other to climax. Most Married people are just not intentional about their sex life.
“That’s why there is lots of sexual dissatisfaction and frustration in marriages today. Sex is a bid for connection and bonding. If you both ain’t intentional and consistent about your sex life everyday, disconnection is inevitable.”
However, @iamyetundebakare wrote, “Marriage is not for the weak oo. Shey people like me wey no too like sex no go see husband like this. abeg just marry your type.”
Also, @siruti said, “Anything wey pass 2 times a week please date someone else.”
@mhizloren further wrote, “Y’all believe is everyday for married people % | have spoken to married people who stay months without it.”
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