Coin d’amour: Marriage is sweet but marrying early is sweeter

Case studies? Millie Bobbie Bongiovi and Nara Ziza have won my hearts because they are settled down early.

I know I most times make audacious statements but they are my opinion I am trying to win you over to. I see people stall to get married even when they have found the right person because they feel they do not have enough money to settle down. It is funny because these kinds of people cohabit with their partners or live in different apartments from their partners and are doing fine.

Marriage is a collaborative venture that takes the interest of two to set up. After school, you rent an apartment, your apartment goes ahead to do so. Why not join your resources together and get an apartment you both can reside in? Well, you might be concerned about wedding ceremony expenses. People stress themselves to do big weddings. Your wedding does not have to be a philanthropic event. Invest those funds into living a better life. Over time, people regret hosting big wedding parties because, in the long run, it can be a waste of money.

That was by the way. So you love a woman, you are sure you want to spend the rest of your life with her. You both earn an average of N300,000 at the end of the month. Seriously, you are good to go. If you have a companion at a young age, it boosts your mental health and helps you to reduce unsustainable decisions you might make. When you get married at a young age, you start thinking in a collective realm which makes you responsible. Being married at 25 makes you more mature than an unmarried person at 30 because he does not have the experience that you have.

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Marriage is sweet, marrying early is sweeter

Waking up in the morning in your home with your partner constantly motivates you to work harder and build generational wealth. You get to rub minds with your partner on how to navigate situations. As the Holy Bible says two heads are better, it has been proved that people who marry early reach financial stability faster than those who do not.

You do not know if you are ready for marriage until you get married. Finances should not be a stopping factor. Just have a stable income you both can dwell on. Start planning your family with a futuristic progression. Seek help from trusted people who can gather funds to help you set up your home and not sponsor an elaborate wedding. Put a pause on the kids until you know you have a net worth that can raise them. Raising kids is an expensive venture.

Studies show young marriages are more likely to last and bring happiness. Marrying early comes with the strength to help you navigate life turbulences early rather than at a youthful age. By the time, you become middle-aged, you must have settled out differences and living the honeymoon phase of marriage.

As long you see your partner as someone you can settle down with, there is nothing that should stop you fro settling down with them. Bear in mind that you both must have a steady source of income no matter how small it is. You cannot dive in with a faith that has no eveidence.