Coin d’amour : Why women should always play hard to get in a relationship

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Her shakara is too much, she likes doing shakara. Ehn, is she the only fine woman? Oga, leave her. Let her maintain that her shakara with maximum composure. What is the bliss in chasing a woman if she does not have shakara?For those who are not really conversant with the Nigerian pidgin, shakara means playing hard to get.

My fellow women, even when you eventually fall in love with your man, do not lose your guard. It is not everytime you’ll be saying yes easily. You’re not being materialistic, you’re just being expensive. Don’t pose yourself as being cheap.

The beauty of a woman lies in her inaccessibility which also increases her value. Though, it has to be measured so it doesn’t put their prospective partner or existing partner off.

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Playing hard to get is actually a formal opinion

I just don’t want to spew off my opinion without tying it to a study. A team of researchers from the University of Rochester and the Israeli-based Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya examined the effects of playing hard to get, a mating strategy that is likely to instill a certain degree of uncertainty. In a new study, published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, they show that making the chase harder increased a potential mate’s desirability.

See, it has been studied that playing hard to get is a strategy every woman must have. Men gets put off easily by things. They are not emotional beings like women so playing hard to get is a strategy women should adopt to keep and heighten the interest of men in them.

This doesn’t mean you are needy as a woman, it is just a strategy. Men also employ strategies to get women to like them, that’s really their only job. Immediately a woman accepts, she starts to work unconsciously to keep her man to her.

I do not bring this message to impose it on my readers. But if you try this strategy, you will find it very effectively. Building the anticipation of your partner to an heightened level arouses some emotions at a point. Make him work for it, girl. Gold is not gotten easily, you’re gold, don’t give in too easily.

And no rule says, you can’t keep playing hard to get even when there is a ring to it. Keep it going, maintain maximum composure, no shaking. Use this strategy to keep your man’s attention in your palms.

In employing this strategy, please do shakara in love. Don’t chase the love of your life away with ruthless treatment. Find balance and moderation to this. Find out what the limit of your partner is. Know the point he breaks, so you won’t lose him.

in all you do, please love right and well. Stay love and be loved.