Coin d’amour: Why women should never initiate a romantic relationship

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I have seen posts, videos, or images of women asking men out. The men often applaud with an inscription, “Did she die?”. She wouldn’t die but has killed the one chance she would have as an advantage.

In the inception, it was engineered that a man is the precursor of the foundation of a relationship. When you start to tweak the process, you incorporate a dysfunction into the system. Women, do not lose your leverage because you like or love a man and he is not initiating a relationship.

Please don’t give him the honor of starting the relationship. The best you can do is give him the green light. If he doesn’t act on it, just know he’s not ready yet or not interested. I know how deeply you must have fallen in love with him, but regardless, you should not be too forward.

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Let your man do the honors of starting the relationship

I think relationships, in a metaphorical context, are like babies. No matter how much you want a baby as a female, you need a man’s seeds. So, explaining that context would be: A man asking you into a relationship is a seed, and your answer is the license for the seed to grow. So, just like a man is saddled with the responsibility of creating a new life by giving a seed, he is saddled with the responsibility of popping the question.

Men, as humans, naturally possess egos, and some possess more than most. Asking a woman out is practically putting that on the line for them, and that’s why they react when women say no; their ego is bruised. The flip side to that would be you feeding their ego so you get what you want, and that, on most occasions, doesn’t end well, especially when his ego is on the top level.

Dear women, in all you do, play smart in love. Hold the advantage the normal workings of life give you tightly. Do not let it go because of emotions. Let the due course of nature run. Do not fasten it to your liking.

P.S. I hope to address this topic from another perspective soon.