Nigerian reality TV star Uriel Oputa has reacted to comments from social media users who questioned why she is not yet married or raising children.
The reactions followed a post by an online user who criticised her for being single, suggesting that her past choices in relationships were now affecting her.
Responding to the criticism, Uriel made it clear that her worth is not tied to marriage or having a partner.
She explained that entering a relationship out of pressure could lead to being with the wrong person, especially someone who may not care about her well-being.
She said she would rather remain single than rush into a union that could disturb her peace or put her in harm’s way.
According to her, personal safety and emotional stability are more important than meeting societal expectations.
Uriel added that her focus remains on her life, her achievements, and her personal development.
She noted that she has lived, dated, and gained experience over time, but has chosen to guard her heart carefully because of how deeply she loves.
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She also advised women not to feel left behind because of their marital status. She encouraged them to prioritise themselves and make decisions that protect their happiness rather than seeking validation from others.
The reality star maintained that she would never put herself in a situation where she is not valued, respected, or treated with care, stressing that she knows what she deserves and will not settle for less.
She wrote on her Instagram page: “Being married or having a husband does not define me. And if I was married right now, 100%, it would have been to the wrong person, someone for whom my safety was never a priority. I am not late, and I will never rush into anything that compromises my peace.
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“Especially not to impress a man who, in a holy month meant for discipline and reflection, chooses instead to tear a woman down. My life, my achievements, and my growth speak for themselves. To every woman feeling pressured, you are not behind. You are choosing yourself.
“My DMs are full. let’s start there. I’ve never been picky with men. I’ve dated, I’ve experienced, I’ve kept an open mind. The only thing I have ever been protective of is my heart. Because I am a romantic. I love deeply, fully, and with intention. And that is exactly why I will never place myself in a situation where I am not appreciated, where I am disrespected, where I am broken down by a man.”
