Ladies, here are 3 very tricky, yet important questions to ask your man before saying “I do”

Choosing a life partner is a decision that will profoundly impact your future. As you navigate your relationships, it’s essential to ask the right questions.

These questions will reveal a lot about their character, values, and compatibility, helping you make a more informed choice for a fulfilling and lasting union.

While love may form the foundation of a successful marriage, discussing certain key topics before walking down the aisle is equally important.

Ladies, here are 3 very tricky, yet important questions that will reveal a lot about who you’re going to marry.

1. Who’s going to do most of the house chores?

I know you’re trying to picture a future with him, but it’s important you ask a man who loves you how you’re going to share the house responsibilities in future — like cooking, sweeping the house, washing the toilet, or doing the dishes. It doesn’t matter if he’s career man, or whether he works round the clock. If he lives alone, he’s going to eat. He’s probably also going to cook for himself.

Pay attention to how he responds to this question, or watch his demeanour. Does he think house chores are for only women? Does he see doing them as only helping you? Is he open to get a housekeeper or a maid? Is he going to outsource some tasks, like buying food from restaurants?

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2. I don’t want to give birth, are you open for adoption?

Pregnancy brings about temporary physical changes such as afterbirth pains, body aches, vaginal discomfort, hemorrhoids, night sweats, swollen breasts, and hair loss. Whether you’re comfortable about giving birth or not, it is still very important for you to know his take on this issue, or what he’s going to do during this crucial period of your life.

At best, you might also ask him what he thinks about adoption or surrogacy. If you’re very serious about walking down the aisle with him, you should do something more engaging than just going to try out new food at dinner dates.

3. If you caught me cheating, what would you do?

Now, this doesn’t mean you’re planning to cheat on him. The question is meant to provoke some reactions from him. But you may need to ask this question when he’s in his best mood, though. It is normal for him to look at you somehow; however, do your best to stay on top of the situation and listen to him keenly.

Whatever his response is, which might be something like divorce or harsh reactions to the issue, turn the table against him, by telling him: if I catch you cheating on me, I’m going to do the exact thing to you. Periodtt.