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I’ve always believed that every human being has the potential to be kind. We’ve all shown acts of kindness at some point in our lives. Whether it’s offering a seat to someone on the bus or helping a friend in need, we’ve all experienced the joy that comes from giving. But if I’m honest, kindness isn’t always easy, especially when life becomes tough. It’s one thing to be kind when everything is going smoothly, but it’s a whole different challenge when you’re struggling yourself.
Take this for example: imagine someone who finds a large sum of money on the street. The twist is, this person hasn’t eaten all day and barely has enough to get by. What would their first reaction be? It’s easy to say, “I’d return it immediately,” but in that moment, when hunger and desperation are real, it takes a tremendous amount of inner strength to do the right thing. I’ve personally had moments where I was so stressed about my own problems that thinking about helping someone else seemed impossible. But still, deep down, I knew that if I let my own struggles change me, I would lose a part of myself.
Kindness isn’t just about giving when it’s convenient. It’s about maintaining your humanity when you’re in situations where it would be easier to look out only for yourself. One story that always comes to mind is from a time when I was dealing with my own financial problems. A friend of mine needed a loan to cover some unexpected expenses. I wasn’t in the best position to help, but I did it anyway because I believed in supporting those I care about. The money didn’t come back, but something else did. Months later, when I least expected it, I received a new opportunity at work that helped me get back on my feet. It wasn’t an immediate return, but it was as if the kindness I gave somehow found its way back to me.
One of the hardest lessons I’ve learned is that kindness can feel draining when it’s not reciprocated. There have been times when I’ve gone out of my way to help others and received nothing in return. It can make you question whether being kind is worth it, especially when you’re giving so much of yourself. But the truth is, kindness isn’t transactional. You don’t give just to receive something back from the same person or situation. Instead, I’ve found that kindness comes full circle in ways you might not expect.
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A powerful example is a story I once heard about a woman who used to help feed the homeless in her neighborhood, despite not having much herself. She did it quietly, without expecting anything in return. One day, she found herself in a position where she needed help. To her surprise, one of the men she had regularly helped years ago came forward and offered her assistance when she was down. It’s one of those moments that reminds me that kindness has a ripple effect—what you give out eventually finds its way back to you.
When I think about how tough it can be to be kind, I remember that it’s in those difficult moments that kindness truly matters. The world can be a harsh place. Sometimes, you’re exhausted, financially strapped, or emotionally drained, and the last thing you want to do is extend yourself further. But kindness is a choice. It’s a decision to rise above your circumstances and not let the hardships you’ve faced change who you are at your core. We shouldn’t become the product of what we’ve been through. If we let bitterness, hardship, or scarcity dictate how we treat others, we lose the chance to make the world a better place, even in small ways.
I think of it like planting seeds. You might not see the results immediately, but every act of kindness plants a seed that grows over time. Sometimes, the kindness comes back in the form of a new opportunity, a helping hand, or even just the knowledge that you’ve made someone else’s life a little brighter. I’ve had moments when, just as I thought my efforts went unnoticed, someone thanked me for something I did years ago, and it made all the difference.
Kindness doesn’t need to be grand gestures either. Sometimes, it’s as simple as being there for a friend when they’re down, sharing what little you have, or offering a smile to someone who looks like they’ve had a rough day. I’ve seen how small acts of kindness can transform someone’s day, and in return, transform mine as well. Even when kindness feels like it’s taking more from you than you can give, remember that it has a way of coming back, often when you need it most.
In the end, kindness isn’t just about making someone else’s life better. It’s about staying true to who you are, despite the challenges you face. It’s about choosing to remain compassionate and open-hearted, even when the world gives you every reason not to. And from my experience, the kindness you put into the world always finds its way back to you, in one form or another.
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