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Here I am, preaching the gospel of relationship according to the book of Ecclesiastes, not Ecclesiastes, I mean the book of Experience. Are you single and still in search of a worthy man? I bring you a very important message you should note.
You meet a man, he checks all your boxes. You’ve been through talking stages and it is sure that you are jeering into a relationship. But on your first physical date after your initial virtual or physical meet-up, he comes empty handed. Madam, it’s a red flag.
A man is at his best when he wants to woo you
Well, you might say I’m audacious or easy to conclude by deciding it is a red flag. A woman a man loves, he cherishes. Gifting is a love feature every man should possess. As a man when you love a woman, the least you can do it to show the token of your emotion in a physical form, not yourself but a gift.
No matter what the modalities of meeting a woman you intend to be in a relationship with, you should get something thoughtful to present to her on your first date. When you say, “You once said you like this so I got it for you”, you actually could win the “lover of the year” award.
Even if you’re taking to a 7-star restaurant to eat, you should get her something substantial and thoughtful. Why? Because before the next day, the memories of the sumptuous meal you get her at the restaurant will leave through her excretory system.
As a man, when you start to harbor the thought of what you would get in return from a woman, you are actually a shallow thinker. I hear guys who say that I can not give a girl that I’m not dating a present or money. For me, those guys are highly transactional and would be far from responsible.
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Few paragraphs for the wise
A man is naturally built to be a giver not like a woman cannot give but a man is more naturally designed to do so. I am not saying you should feed a girl fat all because you want to get into her pants or manipulate her into liking you. What I imply is that, not only words should carry the weight of your feelings. You don’t have to get something extravagant, get something memorable that would always jog her memory to when you met.
Case studies have shown a man’s gifting ability naturally decreases once he’s in a relationship with his partner. Assuming, your man gifts you twice a week when you were in talking stage or probably you were courting, once he bags you, the ability naturally declines.
Let’s try to connect the dots first. A man’s kindness is most portrayed when he’s trying to get you. It is at that time you enjoy his kindness the most not as if he isn’t going to continue after bagging you, but the motive drive reduces.
So that you won’t bag a man from the Stingy Men Association and start complaining afterwards, do not get into a serious relationship with a man that doesn’t gift you something on your first date.
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