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Some Nigerian parents have a unique ability to create a relationship where their children feel free to share anything with them. What do these parents do differently? The answer lies in small but intentional practices that build trust, respect, and connection over time.
Here’s what people who had such experiences shared, and how these practices can help others foster open communication with their children.
1. Playfulness breaks communication barriers
A playful parent often becomes a child’s first and most trusted friend. For example, one person shared how their dad would play games with them, including building sandcastles after it rained. This created a bond where they felt safe sharing anything, even when they knew they had done something wrong.
2. Listen with genuine interest
Many children felt comfortable talking to their parents because they listened without interrupting or judging. One parent would even ensure no one interrupted their child while they were sharing their side of a story before addressing a mistake. This practice showed respect for the child’s perspective and built mutual trust.
3. Practice fair discipline and genuine corrections
Discipline, when applied fairly and with explanation, fosters trust instead of fear. For instance, a dad who would explain the reason for punishment after asking for his child’s perspective earned their respect. Similarly, another parent avoided extreme punishments and preferred guiding their children with options and consequences.
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4. Consistent communication and presence
Parents who consistently stayed in touch, even when away, or always made time for family discussions created an open line of communication. For example, a dad who called his children every minute during traffic and still found time for night devotions showed his dedication, no matter how busy life got.
5. Sharing stories and being relatable
Parents who shared their struggles growing up or openly discussed their day-to-day experiences made themselves relatable to their children. For instance, a mom who shared her own stories of mistakes and learning made her children feel understood and free to share theirs.
Let your children see your humanity. Sharing your experiences shows them you’re not just an authority figure but someone who understands their challenges.
6. Being available and supportive
Parents who were present for their children during crucial moments built lifelong bonds. A mom known for helping her kids out of sticky situations without judgment became their go-to for advice. Her willingness to “fix” problems first and discuss lessons later made her approachable.
Show up for your child when they need you most, even if they’ve made mistakes. Support first, correct later.
7. Respect your children’s opinions and foster independence
Allowing children to express differing opinions and make choices—while gently guiding them—helped some parents build strong connections. One parent trusted their child to make the right decisions after conversations, which boosted confidence and honesty in the relationship.
Trust your child’s ability to learn and grow. Respecting their choices, even when they differ from yours, nurtures mutual respect.
Final Thoughts
Building a trusting relationship with your child isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence, patience, and respect. Whether it’s through play, listening, or consistent communication, the little things add up.
So, to parents wondering how to make their children open up: Be there. Listen. Laugh. And always remember, trust is earned over time, not demanded.
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