During Tuesday night’s episode of the BBNaija No Loose Guard Reunion, housemate DJ Flow opened up about her strained relationship with former close friend and co-housemate, Ruthie, revealing the reasons behind the end of their decade-long friendship.
The reunion show, which kicked off on June 23, 2025, saw host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu pressing DJ Flow for clarity on what led to the split. In response, DJ Flow explained that while she still wishes Ruthie well, their relationship hit a breaking point due to differing expectations and unresolved issues.
According to DJ Flow, Ruthie was already aware of her stance on conflict even before they entered the BBNaija house. She shared that they had conversations in which she made it clear that she doesn’t engage in social media fights or drama—even on behalf of people she cares about.
“I can have your back and support you, but I don’t have to go into a fight with you. We have had a conversation before where she is like, ‘Oh, if they are dragging one person on social media, will you respond?’ And I was like, ‘You know me. You know say I no go respond even if dem dey drag me, I no go respond, not to talk of someone else. It’s not my fight; why should I respond?’” she explained.
Despite their ten-year friendship, DJ Flow admitted that a particular interview Ruthie gave after the show left her deeply disappointed. That moment, she said, gave her the clarity she needed to walk away for good.
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“I try not to have regrets, but I just truly believe that as much as I cherish what we had for 10 years, I also have the belief that at the end of the day, we go through life with people, not completely do life with these people.
“But I think what really did it for me was the interview she had. When I saw that she did an interview speaking on me, I needed a reason. I needed to understand where she was coming from, and that interview just really did it for me and made me realise that I might have love for this person, but I feel like we’ve gotten to a point in life where we should just go our separate ways and that this person is just not good for my energy anymore, and that’s perfectly fine.”
What was supposed to be a shared bonding experience in the BBNaija house ended up straining the long-standing friendship. While DJ Flow made it clear she holds no grudges and still has affection for Ruthie, she believes that walking away was necessary for her peace of mind.
