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Helen Paul recounts stigma of being born of rape


Helen Paul

Nigerian entertainment polymath, Helen Paul has recounted how she was maligned while growing up due to the state of her birth.

News Round The Clock (NRTC) reports that Helen Paul had a few years ago revealed that she was born out of rape.

Speaking in a viral clip on social media, she said some family members even referred to her as a ā€œbastardā€ who would not achieve anything good in life.

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ā€œSome of us canā€™t take rejection. Some of us donā€™t know that our words can make someone feel rejected forever but it worked for me differently.

ā€œI was born out of rape and I grew up with my grandmother, where everyone in the area called me a bastard. So I grew up hearing that Iā€™m a bastard.

ā€œWhen my aunties come to give grandma money for feeding, they will say ā€˜Donā€™t use this money to take care of one bastard child, use it to take care of yourself and buy your medicineā€™.

ā€œOnce they leave, mama would turn to me and speak in pidgin ā€˜you don hear wetin dem aunty dem dey talk, na so this world be o. Na people wey suppose be your mama blood be that oh but dem don tell you who you be. If you like, grow up, forget yourself, say if person no do well, nobody they celebrate hamā€™.

ā€œBut I realize that anytime I offended Mama, she would not want to touch me because they have warned Mama not to beat me. So you think a child looking at different talk will grow up with love?

ā€œBut today, I am a comedian in Nigeria and a professor in the United States.ā€


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